During the 25 days leading up to Christmas, it’s a tradition to count the days with an advent calendar. Each day this calendar is opened to reveal a daily gift. There are a variety of themed calendars. Some offer a good bible verse, a small toy, a chocolate, a saying, or an ornament. (I’m holding out for the mini-oven calendar, where you open a tiny oven door to remove freshly baked muffin tops every morning.) But regardless of the theme, these calendars provide a daily gift to look forward to each day as we get closer to Christmas. Kinda like the Lifetime Network.
For the self-improver, life is like an advent calendar. Every day there is a new gift to be discovered. A new quote. A new idea. A new relationship. A new source of inspiration. A new motivation. A new goal. A new lesson. (And in New Hampshire there is a new Sununu.)
When I wrote my book What Does Your Fortune Cookie Say? I collected 80 of the best life lessons I have learned and shared them with the world. Many of the people who read the book tell me they use it like an advent calendar. They read one of the 2-4 page lessons every day. Then they apply the new idea, knowledge, or skill to improve their life. As the author, this is extremely rewarding feedback. As the author, it is extremely rewarding to hear that other people get as much out of the lessons I share as I did.
Key Takeaway #1
Commit to making your life a living, breathing advent calendar. Look for your daily gift that makes you better. Then add that new lesson, story, saying, person or idea to your personal treasure chest by writing it down in a journal. When you do you will quickly transform that once-empty journal into the most valuable book in your library. Remember, when you condition yourself to find a daily treasure the treasure will surely appear.
Within a minute of writing this post, I got a text from my friend Molly Fay, host of The Morning Blend on TMJ4 (NBC) in Milwaukee. She wrote that they had a cancelation for the next day’s show, and wondered if I could fill in. I responded with an enthusiastic Let’s do this! Then she asked if I had a topic in mind related to the upcoming holidays.
I replied, ‘Yes! Advent Calendars.”
The next morning (yesterday) at 9:00am I was on set with Molly and co-host Tiffany Ogle sharing this idea on TV. You can watch the segment here.
Key Takeaway #2
Be the kind of person others can turn to when they need help. Because at the end of our days the only thing that really matters is the impact we have on each other.
*If you know someone who could benefit from this message, please share it with them.
+If you are interested in daily life lessons for yourself or as a gift, check out my book, What Does Your Fortune Cookie Say? from Ripples Media.
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Great message Adam
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I saw you last night at WCTC and you did a phenomenal presentation. I am organizing a training for the YMCA of Greater Waukesha County at the end of February 2023. I will be honest, I have a very meager budget, so I have a feeling that your rates may be way out of my price range, but I thought I’d inquire anyway, because it can’t hurt to ask, right?
Here’s what I’m looking for. It is a training for about 50-70 staff who work in either early childhood education or our before/after school programs at local elementary schools. We know that our staff all need a bit of a “recharge” and something that focuses on positivity and self-improvement is likely what we need. The date would be Saturday 2/25/23 and it would be held in the New Berlin area. I would want someone to start off our day of training (likely around 9:30am) and speak for anywhere from 1-1.5 hours (whatever works best).
I know this may be a long shot, but I have to at least inquire. What kind of rates would you typically charge for something like this?
Thanks, Jenny Fremgen Association Trainer & Lead Teacher YMCA of Greater Waukesha County
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Let’s Talk Jenny! I’m looking forward to it!