You have a lot of amazing things you could do in life.
Adventurous travel.
Creating your own business.
Writing that award-winning thing that only you could write.
Doing things so interesting that you find yourself rubbing elbows with people who have really nice elbows.
But are you doing any of these amazing things?
Are you ticking things off Your Big Life List of amazing things that add to your life resume and make your enemies mad that they envy your experiences, accomplishments and elbows?
If so, you probably feel happy, fulfilled and purposeful.
If not, it’s time to jump on it, Kemosabe.
You are not getting any younger. (And after seeing how The Substance ends, you won’t want to try.)
Remember, you don’t know how much time you have.
Start Today
Consider the things you would regret not doing if tomorrow your ability to do was done.
Make a list. (Check it twice. Find out who is naughty and nice.)
Start with the biggest, most important activities.
Set self-imposed deadlines.
They are amazing tools to help you accomplish more.
Reflection
On a recent flight, my seatmate and I were talking about our lives and experiences. She commented on the number of impressive life-listy things I had accomplished. I told her that a Big Bertha-sized drive for me was that on the eve of my 40th birthday, I reflected and wrote a list of all the things I was proud to have accomplished. Then, I turned to consider all the things I had not yet done, seen or experienced.
That list of Things Undone has been a great driver for me ever since. Today, I am keenly aware of the many things I still want to do. So I keep a list. And I set deadlines. And I keep ticking them off.
You can too.
Key Takeaway
I encourage you to write your regret list this week. Find some time when you can reflect on what you would regret not having done, accomplished, tried, seen, tasted, explored, or created if you were to die this year. Then get going. It will lead to a more interesting and adventurous life. A life that you can be very proud of. And it will help you finish your time here with no regrets.
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+For more of the best life lessons I have learned check out my book, What Does Your Fortune Cookie Say? from Ripples Media.